Infidelity

“Infidelity is a violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of an intimate relationship. There are two areas in a close relationship where infidelity mostly occurs: physical intimacy and emotional intimacy. In sexual infidelity, the impact is said to be not only about sex outside the relationship, but also about trust, betrayal, lying and disloyalty. What makes infidelity so painful is the fact that it involves someone deliberately using deception to violate established expectations within a relationship. Emotional infidelity is emotional involvement with another person, a process which leads one’s partner to channel emotional resources, such as romantic love, time, and attention, to someone else.” [1]

The causes of infidelity are numerous and can be simple or complicated. First, infidelity has many causes this because everyone has different reasons for being unfaithful, according to the article "The Causes of infidelity include: a mid-life or pre-midlife crisis, low self-esteem, Lack of Love and Attention Given to a Spouse, anger, boredom, Marrying too young, peer pressure, the Existence of an Opportunity, disappointment in the marriage, sex addiction, as a way to leave the marriage, and family events Expectations "(Infidelity). This means that no matter the age of the partners or time relationship that everyone can be unfaithful, self-esteem is an important factor in the relationship that people have to be sure what they are and love themselves to not give as jealousy factors that cause many quarrels between spouses and infidelity push. All that to lose the trust of the couple and generates the need to find someone to fill the "vacuum" is considered a casus of infidelity.

Infidelity brings with it many negative effects on couples. For example, trust is one of the first pillars suffering with infidelity, this negative behavior also brings many other negative consequences for partners, such as depression, emotional damage and in some cases may even cause rupture or divorce. Moreover, in a family, children suffer the terrible consequences of infidelity. These are just some of the effects of infidelity, but in the worst cases can lead to suicide or murder of any member or both.

In conclusion, infidelity as a result of pre-midlife crisis, low self-esteem and have a lots of emotional consequences and involve all family and lose time this end in divorce and not only that, some people suffer psychological problem and in a extreme case people die.

Source:

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[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity